Dresser drawers are like cloth dinner napkins–only for when guests come over.

a new yorker’s year in hawaii
Dresser drawers are like cloth dinner napkins–only for when guests come over.


This is Alan’s salon

Back home I go to the most perfect hair stylist/friend that anyone could ask for. My hair and who cuts it has been an issue for me since the age of 14 (when I discovered leave-in conditioner). In 16 years I’ve only gone to four stylists to whom I’ve been devoted to at each turn: Rodney Cutler, Hyunsoo Kim, and Hiro Haraguchi. All three of them are amazing and I’d go to them again in a heartbeat but they don’t compare to my dear friend and hair guru Kaz. I’m deeply attached to him and he’s one of the elements I miss most about life in New York.
With that said, Alan Vuong is great. His salon (which he owns with two friends) is stylish, well-designed, and comfortable. The staff is friendly and sharp. Alex, who shampooed my hair gave me a fantastic massage. I normally am indifferent to the shampoo massage, but what Alex did felt so good–she’s very intuitive about how much pressure to use.
Alan is like the glamorous Hawaiian Edward Scissorhands. He really tried to draw out of me through conversation my likes and dislikes in regards to hair. He gave me tips on using a straight iron and blow drying. He’s a very sweet individual and very excited about his work. My hair looks and feels really healthy and has great shape and movement. I’ll definitley go back to him for a cut before my big reading on the 24th.
The signs are everywhere : Easter is coming.

Speaking of resurrection. BJ Penn is going to be meeting, greeting, and signing at Nordstrom’s on the 14th. We went to Lids to get a hat for him to sign as a present for K’s friend.

We’ve had two power outages in the past 2 weeks. Our neighbor Corey said that it happens regularly on stormy/windy days and that it takes the electric company forever to fix it. I told K that I was terrified that the power would go out on a night that he was working late. This last Monday it happened. It was about 6PM and it was getting darker and darker. Our place is somewhat remote. It’s hard to find our front door. Even with all the power on it feels very isolated.
I shut down my computer to conserve the battery and fetched our hand-crank flashlight from the kitchen drawer. I turned it on even though the sun was mostly still up. I felt like Frodo.

I wanted to conserve every last drop of power on my iPhone in case I needed to entertain myself or talk to someone until K came home. But I decided that texting him about the blackout was worth the battery juice. Two seconds later he replied he was on his way home. Joy!
So I sat down and played Supermarket Mania until he got home 20 minutes later. Because our oven is electric we went out to Lucy’s Grill for dinnr. I had a glass of Reisling and Opah Crab Dynamite with sweet potato mash. Disaster averted.

I read this article online about niche businesses thriving in a bad economy which featured a tea house in Kailua. I sent it to Sarah and this morning we had tea, sandwiches, scones, and sweets for breakfast. The Victorian tea house and boutique is called A Cup of Tea. Along with the fresh baked scones came clotted cream and lemon curd. It was all very proper and girly. Next to us was a baby shower party and there were a couple of moms with little girls all dressed up for tea.

I’m pretty sure I’d go back. It was great to catch up with Sarah.
The other weekend we met K’s friend Jeremy at the Koko Marina Center’s Starbucks. We were picking up K’s keyboard which he had loaned Jeremy and in return we got a gift bag of organic awesomeness:

Here they are later in our house. It was like a bottomless bag:

I asked him where he did his grocery shopping and aside from Wholefoods he mentioned a place called Kale’s Natural Food. He also told us about a website that was a great resource for home remedies. We spent 3 hours at that Starbucks which is a record for me since coming here.
This is currently my favorite thing from the batch. It’s delicious with oatmeal and bananas for breakfast:

Koko Marina Center is big-time compared to Kailua. It’s very fancy and has lots of stores like Bubbie’s Ice Cream and a multiplex. Part of the reason I wanted to check it out was because Laura from Lily Lotus had said that there was a good teacher at Hawaii Kai’s Bikram studio.

We found the studio tucked away on the second floor but it was in session so we couldn’t go in. I read online that it’s the only bikram place in Oahu that uses infrared heat. It looks very quaint and clean from the outside. At some point one morning I’ll drive over there and take a class.
Driving to Hawaii Kai you pass right through Waimanalo and its stunning beach. I tried to get a picture when we were driving home but this is the best I could get:





This Smart car was parked at yoga this morning. Very cute. It had a wiggling hula guy on the dashboard.

I could handle driving that around. But can it go on a highway?
If not this car, I wish that Hawaii had THIS.

Diane, this lovely person that Wing Tek introduced us to said that if we ever wanted to try Lomi Lomi massage that she had a great person to recommend. We do. And she did: Maka at the Kailua Medical Arts Building.
from Wikipedia:
Lomilomi, (Hawaiian: masseur, masseuse) is the word used today to describe Hawaiian massage, traditionally called lomi (Hawaiian: To rub, press, squeeze, massage; to work in and out, as the claws of a contented cat).
Traditional Practice
Lomilomi practitioners use the palms, forearm, fingers, knuckles, elbows, knees, feet, even sticks and stones. Lomilomi practices varied by family, ahupua’a (region) and island.
Traditionally, lomilomi was practiced in four contexts:
Although the word kahuna lomilomi is widely used in contemporary writings, traditionally the people who performed lomilomi were called ka po’e lomilomi (the massage people) or kanaka lomi (massage person). A related term, kauka lomilomi, was coined in 1920 to describe osteopathic physicians. The word kauka is the Hawaiianized version of doctor.
Like all endeavors in old Hawai’i, lomilomi was conducted with prayer and intention.
Lomilomi Today
Lomilomi is now a common and popular form of massage throughout the world, especially in Hawai’i, Japan and Europe. Traditionally taught lomilomi practitioners are generally unwilling to work at just any spa or massage office. They prefer to treat selected clients quietly and privately, often in home settings. Lomilomi practitioners may also ask their clients to pray, meditate, change their diets, and engage in other self-help activities usually believed to lie outside the scope of massage. Lomilomi is a holistic healing tradition beyond simple massage.
I asked Scott Cambell (www.scottcampbelltattoo.com) who did two of my tattoos if he could recommend someone in Hawaii. He did. And he is amazing.
What yelp user ‘Love S.’ said in part about Mike Ledger:
Call Mike’s secretary to schedule a consult if……….
you like his artistry
you play nicely with others
you’re patient
you got cash
you seriously want the best tattoo on your body for the rest of your life